When one thinks of a marriage, it’s not hard to envision a scenario in which everything goes perfectly and the couple lives blissfully ever after. The reality, however, is that there is no such thing as a flawless marriage. Instead, the ability of two people to remain committed to one another in spite of their flaws as individuals and as a unit is the most important factor in determining whether or not their relationship will be successful.

There is no such thing as a person who is flawless all the time; each of us has our own faults and deficiencies, which can sometimes cause us to have disagreements with the people we are in relationships with. These are the times when we have to remind ourselves that, despite the fact that there may be disagreements or problems, both parties are still committed to making things work for the long haul, and that this dedication must never waver.

Open communication is necessary for the maintenance of a healthy relationship because it allows both partners to feel acknowledged and understood, which is especially important during challenging times when it may not be possible to reach a compromise. Not only does this make it possible for partners to find out more about one another, but it also makes it possible for them to strengthen their connection by demonstrating confidence in one another in spite of challenging emotional or financial circumstances.

In addition, setting realistic expectations for your partner will position you for success rather than disappointment in the future if those expectations aren’t met due solely to the fact that unrealistic standards were placed on them. Having realistic expectations will set you up for success rather than disappointment (or yourself). Marriage requires effort, but if you choose a partner who has values and objectives that are aligned with your own, as well as someone who works hard to ensure that your needs are met along with their own, there is nothing that can stand in the way of the two of you achieving genuine happiness together.

Therefore, marriages may not be “perfect” according to some definitions of perfection, but they certainly do not need to be because, at their core, what matters the most is simply refusing to give up on each other no matter how difficult life gets along the way. This is true even if the marriage is not “perfect” according to some definitions of perfection.